Spending Time With Dad

Fathers and mothers interact with children differently, each having a unique and important role in a child’s life. If a father is not part of a child’s life, other men, such as a grandfather, uncle, or other close family friend can help fill the void. Research shows that children with active fathers, or other strong male role models, tend to develop more self-confidence and be better problem solvers.

Play, touch, and talk with your baby or young child as much as possible. Be a playmate, diaper changer, bather, reader, and soother.

Have consistent one-on-one time with your child. Running errands to the hardware store, the gas station, or to get the tires rotated is a wonderful learning experience for your child.

Take on chores that your child may typically see the mother doing such as grocery shopping, vacuuming, dusting, or doing the laundry. Include your child while doing these activities and send the message that families share responsibilities.

Include your child in your household chores, hobbies or sporting activities. Children of all ages learn from helping you fix things, woodworking, gardening, fishing, or just hanging out with Dad.

Ask your child “What do you want to do together this afternoon?” The answer might surprise and delight you. It will definitely build a bond between you and your child.